I want to give a shout out to all you supportive spouses.
Thank you for your constant encouragement and support. Thank you for holding us while we struggle with feeling inadequate, broken, and like a failure. Thank you for editing your language and knowing what is and isn’t okay to say. Thank you for knowing how to love and lift us. Thank you for missing an event because we couldn’t bear being in public. Thank you for dealing with the doctor visits, the financial struggles, and especially the crazy-eyes (you know what I’m talking about).
Most of all thank you for understanding and remembering – understanding that this is not easy and remembering that all the discomfort, pain, and sadness is for something GOOD – for our future family.
I love you and think you’re wonderful. Thank you for going through this so we can have kids. I know it’s not easy on you and I appreciate it.
–Text from Garrett yesterday after a dr. appointment